Just Let it Flow

Stress is so prominent these days and we all have this huge work load whether dealing with our jobs or school. Sometimes us girls just need to take a load off, I don't mean figuratively either. It is so important that we take some time and feed our sexual needs, desires, and fantasies; we don't all have that special guy or gal who can provide us with some load release at the drop of a hat, sometimes we have to get our hands dirty and do the job ourselves.

The author of Women's Sexualities, psychologist Carol Rinkleib Ellison, Ph.D. conducted a survey in 1993 that announced that 75% of women fessed up to pleasuring themselves within the last three months; these women knew how to have a solo party. Masturbation has no limitations to who can play the game, many of these women were average Janes, who had a house, husband, and a great family, many of them didn't have a bad sex life either. Another study shows that women who are married or have live in partners tend to play with themselves more than single girls who are in the dating circuit.

Self-pleasuring has more benefits than just releasing some unwanted stress, it helps with having a higher self-esteem, better body image, and a more active sex life. These confidence boosters are great for our poise; it makes us more desirable which in return may make us a little bit more horny at times.

It is important that we can find a moment in our busy schedules to spend some alone time with our friend down under, I mean she is our best friend if treated right. So many girls have this mentality of masturbation as being taboo or out of the ordinary, this is not the case at all; we all do it, so express it, open up, let your mind wander. Finding fantasies that will help make our internal bombs explode is crucial. We have to dig down deep into our dirty minds and explore the wild sexcapeds that we dream or day dream about. We have to remove ourselves from situations such as going to school, work, or even doing the laundry, this is our time to shine and no one can take that away from us. So when you are sitting alone think about that past sexual experience you had with the really hot guy from the gym, or when you happened to stubble across free porn on the internet, use those mental images to get busy. Don't be scared that you are being too crazy either, some women get off on the idea about being tied up or having that wild threesome, to each her own, don't judge and you won't be judged, beside who has to know?

To really get down to the juicy parts is how are we going to pull this off or should I say let it out? There are so many different ways that we can releases ourselves, our bodies are full of nerves that will send sexual stimulation to our mind. This is where no one can tell you what to do or how to do it, let your hands wander, learn your body, spend some time with it, allow yourself to relax and feel sexy. You may enjoy the company of a toy vibrating your way to heaven, but it's important for you to figure out what you like. Remember you can't get frustrated if it takes a little while to figure out what feels good, this could be like a trial and error science experiment, that takes patience and muscle control; don't give up, if you fail the first time try it again, it's not a competition and practice makes perfect.